Talanoa to Protect

E pala le ma’a ae le pala le tala – Stones decay however, words do not (Samoan proverb)

How to have open, trusting conversations that nurture the va (sacred relationship), strengthen bonds and create a safe space where children feel empowered to share any concerns, including worries about inappropriate or harmful behaviour.

Children are at the heart of Pasifika families and society. As parents and caregivers, the sacred duty of nurturing children involves not only care and guidance but also building trust and openness.

When children feel safe in their family environment, they are more likely to share any experiences that may feel uncomfortable or unsafe such as grooming and child sexual abuse.

Attention: This resource talks about the serious topic of child sexual abuse. Some descriptions may be upsetting, and we encourage you to read with care. If you suspect harm or abuse, or if you need support, the resources listed at the end of this factsheet can help.